Coming from South Africa, one of the things that surprised me most about living in the USA was how rare it is to see a beautifully set table or to enjoy a proper “tea.” In South Africa, setting the table and having tea (what some might call “high tea”) is more than just a meal—it’s a cherished tradition, a moment to pause, gather, and enjoy good company. Whether you’re hosting a casual brunch, a formal dinner, or just a simple tea with friends, there’s something special about bringing a bit of South African hospitality into your home. Here’s how to set a table the South African way, and why these little touches can make all the difference.
The Art of Setting the Table
In South Africa, setting the table is a ritual that reflects care, thoughtfulness, and attention to detail. It’s about creating an inviting space where guests feel welcomed and appreciated. Here’s how to do it:
- Start with the Basics:
- Tablecloth or Runner: Begin by laying a beautiful tablecloth or a runner down the center of your table. In South Africa, we love fabrics with a bit of texture or a subtle pattern—something that adds warmth and charm.
- Placemats and Chargers: Next, add placemats or chargers at each setting. These not only protect your table but also create a defined space for each guest, making the table look more organized and polished.
- The Right Cutlery:
- Knife and Fork: Place the knife on the right side of the plate with the blade facing inward, and the fork on the left. If you’re serving multiple courses, layer the cutlery from the outside in—starting with the utensils for the first course on the outermost sides.
- Dessert Spoon or Fork: If you’re planning to serve dessert, place the spoon or fork horizontally above the plate, with the handle facing right.
- Plates and Bowls:
- Main Plate: The main plate goes in the center of each setting. If you’re serving a soup or starter, place the appropriate dish on top of the main plate.
- Bread Plate: To the left of the fork, place a small bread plate with a butter knife resting across it.
- Glassware:
- Wine Glasses and Water Glasses: Place the water glass directly above the knife, with the wine glass slightly to the right. If you’re serving both red and white wine, you can add an extra glass above the main wine glass.
- Napkins:
- Folding or Rolling: Napkins can be either folded neatly and placed on the plate or in the glass, or rolled and tied with a decorative napkin ring. The key is to add a touch of elegance without overcomplicating things.
- The Final Touches:
- Centerpieces: Add a simple centerpiece that complements the setting—think fresh flowers, candles, or a small arrangement of seasonal fruits. In South Africa, we love using natural elements that bring a bit of the outdoors inside.
Serving Tea the South African Way
In South Africa, “tea” is a beloved tradition, not just a beverage. It’s a time to slow down, savor the moment, and enjoy good company. Here’s how to serve tea the South African way:
- The Tea Set:
- Teapot and Cups: A proper tea set is essential. Choose a teapot that can hold enough tea for everyone, and pair it with matching cups and saucers. In South Africa, we often use fine china or beautifully crafted pottery for a touch of elegance.
- Milk and Sugar: Don’t forget the milk jug and sugar bowl. Place them on the table with small spoons for serving. If you like, you can also include honey or lemon slices for added flavor.
- The Treats:
- Scones and Savories: No South African tea is complete without some delicious treats. Scones, served with clotted cream and jam, are a classic choice. You might also offer a selection of savory bites like sandwiches, quiches, or sausage rolls.
- Cakes and Pastries: For a sweeter touch, include a variety of cakes and pastries. In South Africa, we love milk tart, koeksisters (a type of syrup-soaked doughnut), or a simple slice of cake.
- Setting the Tea Table:
- Tea Tray: Arrange the teapot, cups, and milk and sugar on a tray for easy serving. Place the tray in the center of the table so guests can help themselves.
- Plates and Cutlery: Lay out small plates, forks, and knives for the treats. Don’t forget the napkins!
More Than Just Decor: Setting a Table with Heart
At Nikki Levy Interiors, we design homes with community, celebrations, and family at the forefront of our minds. For us, setting a table isn’t just about creating a pretty arrangement—it’s about fostering connections, encouraging conversations, and creating a space where memories are made. Every dining room we design is crafted to be a place where loved ones gather, whether for a casual weeknight dinner or a special occasion.
When you set a table in one of our dining rooms, you’re not just arranging plates and silverware; you’re setting the stage for moments that matter. The table becomes a canvas for your family’s stories, a place where celebrations unfold, and where the simple act of sharing a meal can bring people closer together.
By bringing a bit of South African tradition into your home, you’re embracing the idea that a well-set table is about more than just aesthetics. It’s about creating an environment where people feel valued and connected, where every meal is an opportunity to pause, reflect, and enjoy the company of those around you.
Why It Matters
Setting the table the South African way is about more than just making things look nice—it’s about creating an experience. It’s a way of showing your guests that they matter, that you’ve taken the time to make them feel special. Whether it’s a casual tea or a formal dinner, these small touches can transform an ordinary meal into something memorable.
At Nikki Levy Interiors, we believe that every detail counts, and that includes how you set your table. By incorporating these South African traditions into your home, you’re not just decorating—you’re creating a space where community, celebration, and family can thrive. So next time you’re hosting, take a little inspiration from South Africa, and watch how it brings warmth and joy to your table.
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